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Michael

Michael normally does not disclose his age, but he was born August 28th, 1936. The sitting occurred on his birthday.  He insists every day is a birthday, and every day we wake up is a day to celebrate.
Michael holds learning of high value. Life is a journey that for all we know may never end. We need to treat each day as an opportunity to acquire knowledge.
Married 63 years, family is important to Michael; he and his wife have 2 sons, 7 grandchildren and 5 great grandchildren.
He immigrated to Canada from England November 30th, 1966. It was horribly cold upon his arrival in Edmonton. He stresses he never regrets coming to Edmonton.
Michael knows what it’s like to be discriminated against based on heritage. Michael is Jewish. He pursued industrial chemistry at Yardley’s in London. but did not secure employment there because of discriminatory practices. He worked at the London School of Hygiene researching penicillium. At 18, he began two years National Service, compulsory in Britain then. Michael’s basic training helped him mature. Then, he taught Math, Science and German upgrading to military men 45-55. He liked teaching.
He learned to be a barber on the east end of London working for his uncle, who asked Michael to cut hair after observing his uncle’s work. Michael became proficient cutting hair but did not intend to stay in that field.
 In 1966, Michael immigrated to Edmonton to work in a hair salon. When an opportunity arose to attend university, Michael took it. After a year of teacher training, successful candidates could teach; he taught hairdressing at Edmonton’s Victoria School.
He continued his education, achieving a MEd and PhD in Education. He went to work at Alberta Education, remaining 17 years.
He explored a fascination with volunteerism, through a U of A Extension course. He volunteered for non-profit organizations, his interest fuelled by his desire to return kindness he and his family received. His sons are well-educated leaders who fulfill most Jewish parents’ aspiration their children achieve more, educationally, than their parents.
Michael’s connection to Synagogue fluctuates. Michael proudly wears a Kippah, yarmulke or skull cap and a tallit or prayer shawl, symbols of his great respect for his Jewish heritage.  

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Laverne

At 87, Laverne reflects on life considering his has been a full, and rich life with his wife, Doreen, and three children Denise, Janine, and Cameron. Laverne describes a house fire in their Grand Prairie acreage home in 1981. Laverne suggests the fire is not a big memory in life. He pauses to reflect upon Kierkegaard’s statement “Life can only be understood backwards.” He’s reflecting upon his past in discussion with artist, Mary, relishing the quality and variety in his life.  Big memories for Laverne involve his family, where they lived exploring nature, and his long educational career started as an elementary teacher in Dickson, Central Alberta.
Laverne taught at Evergreen Elementary school. He admits to making mistakes as a teacher but felt supported by the community.  A farmer told him the community expected a good Christmas concert. Laverne focused his efforts producing such a concert, upset by a Superintendent’s visit, as they rehearsed. The Superintendent suggested his students would long remember concert preparations over anything else he taught. Laverne learned the value of emphasizing what is truly important.
When asked about disappointments in life, Laverne declares “a person can’t live 87 years without regrets.” His midyear transfer to another school in Red Deer School Division without explanation was disheartening. He wondered if he’d done something wrong. The situation worsened when the farmer who advised about concert expectations told Laverne that he’d betrayed them. A difficult situation, Laverne gained insight into the inevitability, but difficultly of change. Laverne met Doreen Loberg, his future wife of 59 years in 1957. He insists he didn’t know her until they met at a weekend reunion at Camrose Lutheran College. Doreen and Laverne’s courtship was long, while Doreen completed her RN training.
In 1960, they were married in Grand Prairie. Then, grooms wore pink and charcoal: that’s what Laverne wore. Doreen liked it. Their wedding photo is displayed in Laverne’s home. Their life together included: Cross-country skiing, farming, boating at Bear Lake and Dickson on the Raven River. He moved his family to Edmonton to study one year to be a counsellor. For twenty-six years, he counseled in Grande Prairie and later at Grande Prairie College, while farming part-time. He declares looking back he would not change anything. 

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Ken

Kenneth PhD, taught human anatomy to students in Medicine, Dentistry, and Rehabilitation Medicine at University of Alberta. Ken was a frequent recipient of a best teaching award, highly regarded by his students and
peers.
August 2022, Ken turned 93 years old.
Born in Brandon, Manitoba, 1929, Ken youngest of three brothers and one sister.
Ken met Phyllis, his wife of almost 70 years, in Moorhead, Minnesota where they attended Concordia College. Ken, on a college scholarship, played football and hockey. Phyllis was a cheerleader.
Ken played football, as an end for Calgary Stampeders in 1952. He loved physical activity. Ken has fond memories of playing football and hockey. He viewed sports as a unifying force, which could build community, tolerance and understanding. He insists there was no talk of politics in sports he played.
Ken and Phyllis moved to Edmonton, a hot July 1st, 1965. with their six children. Ken was invited to join mentor Dr. Ollrich in the Anatomy faculty at University of Alberta. Ken knew Dr. Ollrich from his university days. Arriving by car, the family stayed in Dr. Ollrich’s McKernan basement. Ken began work as Professor of Anatomy at University of Alberta, Faculty of Medicine, July 3ird, 1965, where he taught until his retirement in 1993.
Faith in God shaped Ken’s life. A past member of Calvary Lutheran Church, Ken served there as a Deacon, one of many ways Ken served his church.
Ken, busy with his career, still coached each of his six children’s sports activity. He enjoyed cross-country skiing, snowshoeing, fishing, hunting, and hiking, involving his children in these activities. He introduced his children to his version of a party, which included black licorice and Pepsi.
Ken loved travel. Especially interested in China, he studied Mandarin, prior to several trips to China where he taught medical students.
In 2022, Ken and Phyllis moved into a supported living facility, where they sat together on a balcony watching the sun set. 

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Florence

Florence learned from a challenging early life, how to enjoy life at 78.  She confirms she “lived a lot during her lifetime.” She turns 79, July 15th and would like someone to write her a ‘birthday poem.” Writing a birthday poem, gifting it to friends and family is a recent pastime by which she honors those she loves.
Florence’s early life was filled with hardships she experienced in a family struggling to survive in times of war and economic uncertainty. As the youngest of four, she had three older brothers, she felt insecure. Her mother, possessive of Florence’s father’s love and attention, alienated Florence. Florence’s mother didn’t allow her in the kitchen. Today, she is grateful for Meals on Wheels and in winter orders from Boston Pizza.  
Florence’s strained relationship with her mother, something her mother apologized for, impacted Florence’s early marriage to John. He also came from a dysfunctional family. After Florence gave birth to Gordon, the couple divorced. Florence moved to an apartment on Saskatchewan Drive. John lived nearby. Together they raised Gordon who went to Garneau School. Today, Gordon, 56 years old, lives in Toronto where he is a sportscaster. He and ex-wife Sarah have one daughter, Florence’s granddaughter of whom she is very fond.
Happy in retirement, Florence doesn’t depend upon anyone. Although it took a long time to get where she is today, she enjoys life and is at peace, ready to pass away.  She organized her end of her life celebration. The music she’s chosen is Bruce Springsteen’s “Dancing in the Dark.” A friend, Wally will read “On Death” by Kahli Gibran. 
She studied Buddhism which provides comforts to live by. She meditates, informally. Plants, she insists are good to mediate on declaring “look at my African violet blooming, it’s happy.”
One regret is she didn’t travel more. She would like to see China, Greece, and study in Italy. But two bad knees, reliant upon on a walker to get around, travel isn’t possible.
Florence believes she lives with grace in life, now.  She refrains from judging others because she understands what others go through, having endured life’s upheavals. 

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Eileen

Eileen was born in 1936. She lives in a condo with second husband Ronald. They blended their families years ago; together they have many grandchildren. Eileen’s first marriage ended when her husband finished his education in Winnipeg. She has four daughters. Ron, her second husband, two sons.  Ron will turn 90 when Eileen’s daughter, Rene, arrives from Australia. Rene and Eileen planned a trip to Florence, Italy: number one on Eileen’s bucket list.
Looking back, Eileen expresses frustration with damage people do to others. Powerful people with wrong motivations hurt people. Eileen’s life shows she values relationships and cherishes love and support from Ron and family. She speaks with her daughters every week on Zoom .
At 19, Eileen became Director of Music at Crease Clinic in Vancouver which specialized in innovative treatments for the mentally ill. She researched music therapy for mentally ill patients; with a musical background her work at the clinic into a wonderful experience she considers fortunate to have experienced, admitting some successes and some very sad outcomes among patients.
Today, she sings in her church choir, although she declares she can’t sing anymore. She recently overcame performance anxiety delivering a sermon about change. Thinking she wouldn’t be given another opportunity to speak in public, she put all her energy into delivering her sermon and did not experience anxiety. She also received praise for her sermon.
Eileen is a good role model for her daughters but is not as educated as she’d like.  She thrived in the workplace working only when required to earn a living. She wrote for television and was an assistant producer.
Women’s work in the 1960’s was challenging with few good jobs for women. She worked for City of Edmonton for seven years, then at CBC, CTV, CFCN and ITV on contract basis. She liked work but because men were always her boss, when one left, she had to teach his replacement his job. She was not paid well.
She researched for a neurologist at U of A hospital writing a book on intercranial aneurisms. She did literature reviews with no computer to organize data, working with three researchers they completed 8000 citations. Ironically, this work gave her understanding of aneurism when she collapsed on a BC beach at 62. At Victoria Hospital, a surgeon explained she’d suffered an intercranial aneurism requiring surgery with a 15% chance of survival and likelihood of long-term problems. She recovered with almost full capacity.
Full of gratitude to be alive, she takes nothing for granted.

 
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Ed

Ed was born in Tisdale, Saskatchewan in 1935.  He lived on a farm. After completing high school, he came to Edmonton to train in carpentry. He credentialled as a carpenter in 1958. In Hay River, he was the ‘go-to’ guy for workers untrained because apprenticeships were new in Canada then. He helped workers interpret blueprints. Therefore, Ed was teaching before he became a teacher.
Ed suffered a back injury and weightlifting assisted his healing. After his back improved, he continued with power lifting. He stresses he is a weightlifter[LS1] , not a body builder.
Ed trained as a High School carpentry teacher in Edmonton where he taught 37 years. He also taught first aid after himself training with St. John’s Ambulance. He developed a first-aid course for teachers at Victoria (Vic) High School. Ed taught first-aid in his carpentry classroom.
His advice is for maintaining physical health is that everyone should be involved in a physical activity they choose, to provide conditioning. Walking is good. But Ed stresses everyone choose an activity they like and will do to stay fit. We need to be active as we age because aging, decreases basic strength. Without basic strength a person loses speed. Weightlifting slows strength loss.
He suggests increasing fitness, beginning with 10 repetitions of any exercise, such as, squats, presses and back raises.  It’s difficult, but research supports that exercise provides ability which allows a person to maintain his or her independence in daily activities. After body weight squats, work up to adding weights. Weightlifting strengthens muscles around joints, building strength.
Ed’s wife, Brenda who he married in 2003, went to the gym where he taught, so she could see him more.  Beginning weightlifting at 60 years of age, she set a Canadian weightlifting record for women aged 70-75, at age 71. This year, she turns 80, and she’ll be in a new age category, anticipating setting a new Canadian Women’s weightlifting record.
Ed likes living in Parksville, where he coaches weightlifters, men, and women of various ages. But he regrets not being able to help Ian, his son, raise his children in St. Albert.
Ed’s grandchildren are important to him and his relationship with them is special.
 

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Doug

Doug brings hope to the world, “I live in the turbulent present in anticipation of a hopeful future,” he says. “I don’t want to dwell on the past.”
His strong belief in God motivates him to complete the development of the planet begun by the creator, hoping his own life provides a better world. He is motivated by his belief that through modern technologies, along with developments in science, agriculture, and medicine more people will benefit than ever before. Humanity is struggling to develop a culture of peace to replace the old culture of war.
In 1965, Doug returned to Canada after eight years living in the United States and settled in Edmonton. Moving from the New York area to a region with cold winters required a huge cultural shift. But the move was successful and opened his public career as a Member of Parliament, and later Ambassador and Senator. Only three Canadians in the history of Canada have held all three posts. He feels that his life was not predestined; rather he moved from one stage to another with God’s guidance.
But our hope for a better world must be active. In this sense, hope is a verb. We must reach out to one another in whatever way is possible. Opening our hearts is the beginning of a culture of peace. Humanity is struggling to develop a culture of peace to replace the old culture of war.
He fears living too long, adding there are no last words when we leave this world. He’ll pass away. Life will go on. He considers himself one grain of sand on a long beach, with no delusions about his power to change the world. He remains constantly hopeful for a life of reconciliation for all.
In the closing chapter of his life, he contemplates death daily. At 93, he says it would be “foolhardy” not to think about approaching death. Every day he wakes is a surprise. He expresses his gratitude for health and a clear mind, which allows him to continue writing professionally. He suggests anyone wishing to examine his life read his memoirs, Creative Dissent (Novalis, 2008).

 
 
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Dean and Donna

Donna and Dean Suggett married 62 years met in Bentley. Alberta. Their life together shows how to live long, appreciating life. Dean is 92 years old, and Donna 87.
Life has been good Dean says, but not always easy. Both Dean and Donna express gratitude for their two loves: the Canadian North and their three children: one girl and two boys. Daughter Anne lives in Vancouver, where she retired recently from occupational hygiene.  Son Jack, the oldest, lives in Calgary. An engineer, he retired in 2022. David lives in Edmonton and is a heavy-duty mechanic and teacher at NAIT.
David and Jack were born in Yellowknife, Northwest Territories. Anne was born in Dawson City, Yukon, with the assistance of a midwife. Donna describes her as a special person from Scandinavia. The midwife, pregnant when she helped delivered Anne, later delivered her own baby because no doctors were available.
Dean loves Northern Canada where working as a radio operator, deciphering flight plans, he used Morse Code, which he likes. However, Dean didn’t like shift work, especially when he and Donna worked opposite shifts.  They lived in Fort Smith and Yellowknife, returning to Edmonton in 1967 and stayed. Their children attended school and David started Kindergarten.
Donna nursed part-time at the Charles Camsell Hospital in Inglewood. Her children didn’t like when Donna worked weekends; therefore, she switched jobs becoming a Science Aide at Parkview School: work she did six years. Then, she studied occupational nursing; work she enjoyed eighteen years.
Life changed as they aged. Over the last 14 years, Dean suffered health setbacks to his sight, heart, and thyroid. Donna says they don’t travel like they used to. Times past, they drove through forty-four of the fifty states in. the United States.
 Donna suggests “Life isn’t as good as it was. Dean agrees their quality of life decreased. His hearing diminishing, he won’t answer the phone. Donna concurs, Dean’s health declined: he has a bad back, hearing and sight loss. Dean says, at times, he looks at Donna and they share a knowing glance anticipating when their lives will end. But they live the life they have fully. They bring out poetry Dean’s written, along with a family album created by Anne, reading aloud, reminiscing, knowing ‘their time’ is coming, but also appreciating the life they have now. 

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Cheryl

Cheryl led a full life living her way. She was born in Prince Albert, Saskatchewan of Norwegian heritage. Cheryl grew up in CNR stations where passing trains made their home rattle. She met husband, Peter, in grade 8. They became good friends. Cheryl was 15 and Peter 16 when they married. Two children, a boy and girl followed, but the couple decided two was all the children they wanted. Later she worked in Regina at the Department of Justice. Peter was transferred to Edmonton for work.  Cheryl is discouraged by Edmonton’s shorter summers, missing beautiful Saskatchewan skies.
Cheryl is pleased she and Peter stopped at two children.   Their two children provided them four grandchildren and seven great grandchildren. A proud grandmother and great grandmother, she suggests they are smart and cute. All her great grandchildren are male, until recently, a girl was born. Cheryl hasn’t met her yet, but plans to sew her a dress,
At 77, Cheryl lives in assisted living, surrounded by tubs of quilt fabric. She loves to sew. She learned from her father’s mother who made quilts for each member of her family. Quilts became central to her extended family in married life.
Cheryl is passionate about family, quilting and faith. Not a member of a church since moving to Edmonton, her faith sustains her. She listens to hymns online, prays, and feels God within her.
Cheryl faced challenges in her life with the gusto she instills in family and quilting. She survived a major stroke in 2007, that placed her in a wheelchair. She describes herself as having “one arm and half a brain.” But after her stroke, she determined she was going to get on with her life. She participated in “Getting on with the Rest of your Life after Stroke,” a program provided by Edmonton General Hospital. But her journey back from stroke was long. Luckily, she accomplished it. Her faith gave her strength in stroke recovery. She learned neuroplasticity of the brain creates new pathways to relearn what was lost. She worked hard after stroke. And to her delight, she learned to paint with watercolours.
 Over 30 years, she and husband Peter travelled to Puerto Vallarta, Mexico. A son, daughter-in law and grandchildren joined them over time. 
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Cecile

Cécile is an Acadian, born in Somerset, Manitoba.  A grandmother of seven, Cécile, moved by her mother's generosity to neighbours in need, began a journey of faith and discovery.  
"The older I grow,” she says, “the fewer satisfying answers I have about life." 
Her strength lies in her belief in a challenging and loving God.  Images speak to her: "Read and enter the mystery of what you read and what you see,” she suggests. “We must look with a new heart." 
Cécile's mind is constantly on the move.  "I like to wonder about life and ponder God's Word,” she says, “as in Jeremiah 31:3: 'I have loved you with an everlasting love, therefore I have continued my faithfulness to you.'  This Scripture spoke to me so long ago, never to be forgotten."  She sees life and death as a mysterious gift: death represented by a butterfly emerging from a chrysalis.
Cécile met her husband Ted on a blind date.  After a short courtship, they married on Easter Monday at Sacred Heart Catholic Church and moved into the house she now lives in. They were blessed with two daughters. 
Today family pot lucks involve a full house.  A widow since 2012, she continues to be challenged by her husband's passing but experiences inner peace and even joy as a result of her faith and the support of her daughters, sons in law
and grandchildren. 
"God continues to challenge me,” says Cécile, “and every day brings me to a deeper awareness of the beauty found in unexpected places. How marvelous and mysterious this wonderful world we live in!"

 
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