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7/8/2020 2 Comments Pandemic InsightsI have never heard anyone strive to end their lives in a care facility but have not really thought it through. The report that came out of Ontario late May regarding the living conditions in some longterm care facilities brought home the ugly truth. Susan Braedley hit the nail on the proverbial head with her article May 26, 2020 which began with the statement, “All it took was mass death”. She asserts that at least part of the reason why persons in care are treated deplorably is that we are ageist:
Let’s be honest…As a society, we tend to devalue and denigrate any adult who is unable to look after themselves, develops disabilities or cannot “keep up” with the onslaught of rapid social change. We do our utmost to stay “youthful”, while also denying that most of us will experience some frailty before we die. This from an academic doing research on how to improve facility life… Agiesm is like any unconscious bias, it starts from within. My tiny soapbox is simple. It is natural to be drawn to the gorgeousness of youth but appreciation for the beauty/aesthetic in ageing must be learned. If we valued this beauty, would we ignore it or allow it to perish in inhumane conditions?
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Karoline
7/8/2020 07:47:07 pm
Well said! Vulnerability due to age or condition is seen as weakness by many. Ageism and judgement creep in, and often the elderly are more objectified versus embraced. Their value is often diminished by a society that values youth and prestige often over resilience and experience. Often society covers older individuals with a heavy quilt of limiting attitude and behaviours. Imagine -- if as many younger people or children had died from COVID-19, what would be the outcry within our country?
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Mary Whale
11/5/2020 08:47:26 pm
Dahling!!! So nice to hear from you! You have the gift of 'hitting the nail on the proverbial head'! The pandemic has really brought so many things to the surface. I'm currently reading a book called "Coming of Age" by S. Jenkinson. :"The dominant culture does not hold a place for the elder. Elder is a word with no coherent referent in our cultural mythology, no traditions of relationship or practice, and no social institutions except its mockery: the "elder care facility".
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